Chele Yntema https://validator.w3.org/feed/docs/rss2.html Emotional Flashbacks: Understanding the Push and Pull Inside. Why Your Brain Loves Curiosity Disgust: The Boundary Emotion The Fragmenting Fog of Contradiction: How Coercive Control Disrupts Knowing and Protects Connection Cognitive Dissonance and Coercive Control: How We Protect Connection When Safety Is Uncertain Cognitive Dissonance and Attachment in Coercive Control: A Relational, and Neurobiological Exploration The embodied and relational Self in context On attachment in the therapeutic relationship: Attachment to your therapist Verbal processing: why using many words can feel safer When Support Hurts: Anticipatory Attunement, Anger, and Collapse Responsibility and Accountability in Relationships: Intention, Impact, Rupture, and Repair When “trouble” feels annihilating: Neurodivergence, complex trauma, and the fear of getting in trouble Neuroception The Rhythm of Attachment: How we come to be with Self, Other, and World. Dissociation and complex trauma: the spectrum of protection The Battle of Needs Negotiation: Boundaries Ambiguous Loss: When Someone Leaves Without a Why The nature of shame: connection, protection, and the fracturing of Self Framework Fundamentals – Co-Regulated Connection For when you feel lost Even in Darkness… A Steadying Moment Therapy for Burnout, Breakdown, and Trauma Patterns of Protection Pattern of Protection Self-blame Core Needs Functional Fundamentals – Fundamental Nature of Self & Other Experiencing in the World Betrayal Repair Rupture Distress of separation Separation distress Self-reliance Self-criticism Self-doubt The Monster in my Mind They named it connection… Never Forget What if tomorrow is worse than today? Persisting and Collapsing Reenactments When the Body Shuts Down Embodied Relational Knowings Respect Ambiguous loss Ambiguous Trauma Attachment Alarmed Aloneness Therapy